I often feel like I have no personality

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
taibhsearachd
foolhearteyes

Oh, okay. I see. You think this has nothing to do with you. You go to your closet and you select out, oh I don’t know, that gaslight gatekeep girlboss meme, for instance, because you’re trying to tell the world that you think modern feminism has been co-opted by corporations. But what you don’t know is that that meme is not from Instagram, it's not from Twitter, it's not from Tiktok, it’s actually from Tumblr. You’re also blithely unaware of the fact that in January 2021, Tumblr user missnumber1111 posted, "today's agenda: gaslight gatekeep and most importantly girlboss." And then I think it was a-m-e-t-h-y-s-t-r-o-s-e, wasn’t it, who reblogged it with an image of the phrase edited over a piece of "Live, Laugh, Love" wall art? And then gaslight gatekeep girlboss showed up in the feeds of eight different Twitter repost accounts. Then it filtered down through Instagram and then trickled on down into some tragic “alt side of Tiktok” where you, no doubt, fished it out of some clearance bin. However, that meme represents millions of notes and countless Tumblr users and so it’s sort of comical how you think that you’ve made a choice that exempts you from Tumblr when, in fact, you’re wearing the meme that was selected for you by the people in this room. From a pile of “stuff.”

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jkthinkythoughts

I swear this is how I feel every time I see a Tumblr screenshot out in the wild

kirayaykimura
descendant-of-truth

I think the other reason I don't really get into ships as portrayed by fandom culture is that it seems like the mindset is more like. "I want these characters to be in a Romantic Relationship(TM)" instead of "I want these characters' relationship to be romantic"

What I mean here is that, so often I see pairings enacting romance tropes to the point of heavily altering or downright replacing their original dynamic - as if the people behind it only understand romance as a series of checklists to tick off. Couples like to kiss and sleep in the same bed and flirt with each other, so it doesn't matter who the characters are, if they're a couple then naturally they'll do those things, right??

And that's where the whole thing starts to lose me, because I would assume that the appeal of shipping characters is, y'know... the characters? Rather than just, the idea of a couple? If I'm thinking about how it'd be cool for them to be in love, my first thought is always "so how would they show it," because just like everything else about a person, the answer is going to be different on a case-by-case basis.

Maybe the characters involved aren't really into kissing, but they like arranging date activities. Maybe they aren't committed to the structure of dating at all, and just want to be around each other whenever they can. And even if they are the types to like doing traditionally romantic things, that doesn't suddenly erase whatever else they had going on before they started adding that on top of it.

I'm not saying that the more typical romance tropes and activities are bad, just that they're applied kind of excessively, regardless of whether or not they actually work for the characters involved. I want to see my favorite characters having relationships that are true to who they are, not what the stock depiction of a couple says they should be.

fanfiction ohmygod THIS
taibhsearachd
communist-hatsunemiku

I think being autistic has made me realize how extremely hostile the environments we have designed are. And I don't mean "this environment is uniquely hostile to me because I am autistic" I mean that even normies are just existing in brutal, stagnant spaces, they have just internalized them as normal. We could have it all, we could live in such a beautiful and fascinating world, designed by humans and for humans who actually enjoy life and it's complexity and wonder. but even now it's like, seen as kinda hippy-dippy bullshit to have "excessive" indoor plants in a workspace or something

doctoraxiom

There's a level of abstraction to "autism exists on a spectrum" that most people don't realize- most "neurotypical" adults will exhibit autistic behaviours when sufficiently overstressed.

Just because their threshold for certain stressors are an order of magnitude higher doesn't mean that the stressors are not there.

We could build a kinder world which minimizes the stressors and maximizes the access to calming environments if we were just more conscious of it.

Disability advocacy builds a better world for everyone, it's important to remember this is the case for neurodivergence as well.

communist-hatsunemiku

Irt you tags, you did not miss my point at all! Disability advocacy builds a better world for everyone! Like literally!

linootte-on-main
nitewrighter

I actually do feel like the "unemployed friend on a Tuesday" meme actually helps de-stigmatize unemployment because it frequently affirms that when you don't have a job you're more likely to be getting up to some weird shit rather than just lazing around. But I also feel like the unemployed friend is frequently up to some random shit because there's a whole pile of miscellaneous life tasks that full-time employment keeps people from. The unemployed friend is helping their cousin move, or babysitting, or checking in with a neighbor with mobility issues. The unemployed friend is a walking thesis on the inflexibility of our current labor landscape and just how much work exists outside of work.

capitalismmmmm
furie-nocturne
twistcmyk

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nidamae-spedmom

Maybe not an ADHD or Autism thing but I feel this.

bisexual-engineer-guy

oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck babe wake up another artist has used their comic to articulate an unease I've felt for ten years but been unable to convey properly to others

ohhh this hits sometimes I read this post about loving your friends and like i wonder if i ever truly loved anyone?? and vice-versa was i a source of joy for someone even once?
kirayaykimura
werecreature-addicted

people are always like "Oh a vampire wouldn't get horny while drinking someone's blood, that's like getting horny while eating a sandwich" and like man have you never had a really good fucking sandwich?

otterfemme

The sandwich i had for lunch didnt moan and scream and squirm against my body and then become limp and pliable when i was done now did it

otterfemme

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pupucino

by allah you people are dogs i will reblog as usualALT
mishchills
ayekha

fuck it, i'm curious. reblog and tag with the first fictional death to ever rewrite your brain chemistry and/or make you cry like a baby. mine was ares from the underland chronicles (who, for context, was a giant bat.) to this day i will weep if i think too hard about it. okay, go.

le petit prince 100% He fell as gently as a tree falls. There was not even any sound because of the sand. WELLL FUCK MEEEEEEEEEE
mishchills
hylianane

Post on twitter asking what Luffy would do about Sasuke in Naruto’s place, there was a lot of answers about how he’d respect Sasuke’s choice to commit to his ambitions, and later beat him down with little remorse if forced too. And that’s good, that’s pretty good analysis I think. But I’m over here thinking that if Luffy had been put in Naruto’s place at ANY point in the narrative he’d probably end up pulling a Sasuke himself and burning the Leaf Village to the fucking ground.

caesarootham

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these beautiful tags, absolutely wonderful.

hylianane

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Not to peer review your peer review but YEAH. YOU GET IT.

one piece naruto nothing to add we all know luffy would be part of a terrorist org because he DESPISES world governments his politics are very muchhuh
taibhsearachd
leefsnakesnake

There's an EU initiative going on right now that essentially boils down to wanting to force videogame publishers with paid games and/or games with paid elements such as DLC, expansions and microtransactions to leave said games in a playable state after they end support, or in simpler terms, make them stop killing games.

A "playable state" would be something like an offline mode for previously always online titles, or the ability for people to host their own servers where reasonably possible just to name some examples.

I don't think I need to tell anyone that having something you paid for being taken from you is bad, which is a thing that routinely happens with live service and other always online games with a notable recent example being The Crew which is now permanently unplayable.

Any EU citizen is eligible to sign the initiative, but only once and if you mess up that's it. You can find it here. (https://citizens-initiative.europa.eu/initiatives/details/2024/000007_en)

Even if you're not European or you signed it already, you can share this initiative with anyone who is, even if they don't care about videogames specifically because this needs a million signatures and there is different thresholds that need to be met for each EU country for their votes to even count and could also be a precedent for other similar practices like when Sony removed a bunch of Discovery TV content people paid for.

veranthia

SUPPORT BELOW 50% OF THE THRESHOLD IN THESE COUNTRIES:

Bulgaria - 35%
Croatia - 45%
Cyprus - 12% (!!!!)
Czechia - 47%
Greece - 27%
Italy - 41%
Latvia - 43%
Luxembourg - 20%
Malta - 11% (!!!!)
Romania - 48%
Slovakia - 47%
Slovenia - 38%

SEVEN countries out of 27 have met the threshold so far. Deadline is 31st July, 2025.

let's fucking go for my brothers!! (i personally do not play)
kirayaykimura
gerardpilled

sad reality of the fanfic-to-published work economy is that the weirdest people are willing to do it. that's why there's now hundreds of shitty no plot cishet hate-to-love enemies-to-lovers books that are ex reylo fanfic. and it's not even good. that's because the people who wrote book-quality steve/bucky and kirk/spock fic are too normal to think to themselves "i should get this porn published". they're too busy working in local government offices

gerardpilled

everyone I am happy to announce that the stevebucky fanfic author I had in mind while writing this post has officially reblogged it.

tiggymalvern

#imo the writers who write insanely good fanfic can’t file the serial numbers off because they grasped the canon so thoroughly #the shitty stuff is publishable because once you change the names you can’t recognize these people

Prev's tags are correct.

fanfiction shaking my fist THIS IS SO TRUE